Expectations you May Want to Discuss

by Ms. Margaret Davis

Types of Spanking

Playful
Punishment/Discipline
Maintenance/Prevention
Sensuous
Erotic

For an explanation of these different types of spanking, read Ms. Margaret's article, Different Styles of Spanking.

Positions

*over-the-knee
* scissors hold
* bent over a chair, desk, bed, sofa
* tummy down on a bed
* holding ankles
*all fours
vs. suspended
vs. stocks
vs. bondage

Approaches

** private, group, public
** serious delivery or a more jovial setting
** dressed or nude participants
** street clothes, lingerie
vs. leather or child-like costuming

* parent, teacher, student, child, "brat"
*boss subordinate
vs. master, slave. "S.A.M."
vs. two equals with equal "power"

* repeated rhythmic striking (or tapping)
vs. less striking more rubbing & touching
vs. various sensations

* scolding phrases
vs. humorous
vs. erotic words and commands

* reason (punishment)
* no reason (maintenance)
vs. playful interaction
vs. sex (erotic)
vs. tactile pleasure

*temperature taking, enemas & figging
vs. fingers and butt plugs

*chastisement & embarrassment
vs. total humiliation
vs. relaxation

*"for your own good"
vs. "for my/our pleasure"
vs. embarrassing, "forced" feminization
vs. pleasurable cross-dressing

Responses

**resistance
**tears
** pouting
**embarrassment/obedience
**compliance, humble silence
**laughing, joking, pleasurable moans

Implements

**hand
**paddle (wood, leather)
*belt
*hairbrush
*wooden spoon
*slipper
*ruler
*cane
*birch
*tawse
*strap
*switch
vs. whip/riding crop
vs. cat o' nine tails
vs. martinet/flogger

The Ritual

Possibilities:

spanking for very real offenses or role-play
playful/lighthearted spanking, sometimes public
privacy, serious atmosphere, serious spanking
forewarning, fearful anticipation
sent to a room to wait, corner time
having to ask for the spanking
being told to present the implement
scolding, explanation beforehand
addressing someone as "sir" or "ma'am" during this time
having pants removed or being told to remove them
being told to assume a position or being placed in position
cuddle time afterwards or isolation (e.g., being sent to bed)
closure and forgiveness

Ready for the Next Step?

1. Read SCONY's protocols to see if your head space works within our boundaries.

2. Come join us for our chats Mon – Thu, 9:30 pm EST.

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